10 Steps to prepare yourself for Mediation

The mediation process differs for everyone, however the following guidelines can help you to prepare for what to expect and how to prepare yourself for mediation…

By using these 10 steps, you’ll be more likely to solve your dispute in a satisfying, civilised manner.

1. Always make sure that both parties are present as well as the mediator and everyone is informed on the dispute at hand.

2. Expect the unexpected and be willing to accept any new information or developments that come up.

3. Listen during the mediation session and focus on the problem you are trying to resolve, not the people involved.

4. Do not use the same tactics that are used in litigation. There is no need to do anything unnecessary and potentially offensive.

5. Spend a bit of time thinking, planning and discussing your approach during the mediation session.

6. Think outside the box and try to look at the issue you are trying to resolve through the eyes of the opposite party involved.

7. Build your pre-mediation preparation by being aware of how you are perceived and how your position invites or denies resolving the dispute.

8. All mediation briefs and materials should be completed before the mediation takes place. Of course you should also know your materials well and be ready to explain and clarify anything.

9. Never underestimate the ability of the other part involved. It is best to get through the mediation as a team and resolved the conflict together then to just spectate from the side-lines.

10.  Think about your strategy in negotiation, review what mediation processes you prefer as well as what you will say and do to get through the dispute.

The only way to get through mediation successfully is to well-prepared in advance as well as to be willing to deal with any issues and questions raised by the mediator or the opposite party.

Mediation is an alternative way to resolve conflicts, such as landlord/tenant resolution, labor and contractual disputes, and divorce settlements. Be sure to contact Cape Mediators today: email mike@capemediators.co.za or give us a call on 082 422 3324 to book your session.