7 Signs that your Partner is cheating & it’s time for Divorce Mediation!

Cheating can destroy relationships as well as marriages; this is why it helps to know what signs to look out for if you suspect your partner is cheating.

Divorce is full of negative feelings such as anger, sadness, frustration and disappointment. This is why it is best to resolve the issue in a peaceful way and avoid all the stress as well as a lengthy divorce trial. Contact Cape Mediators today and we’ll help you settle your divorce – call 082 422 3324 or email mike@capemediators.

Be sure to look out for these 7 common signs that reveal that your partner is cheating…

Password Protection – Suddenly changing passwords or implementing new ones could be a sign that he is hiding something.

Cell phone Guarding – He won’t let you use his cell phone, he sleeps with it right next to his bed and takes it into the bathroom with him – these are all common signs.

Appearance – Has he suddenly gone from wearing shorts and a t-shirt to fancy suits, shiny shoes and cologne you’ve never smelled before?

No Intimacy – When you reject him and he doesn’t put up a fight like he usually does then this could be a sign of infidelity.

Social Activities – An important business meeting or a party is a common excuse, so be aware when your partner is all of a sudden going out of town.

Frequent Gifts – If he is feeling guilty about being unfaithful he will try and cover it up by buying you gifts and spoiling you more than usual.

Social Media – Keep an eye on his social media profiles, are there less pictures of you and more solo shots and group images? Be aware of how much time they spend on social media as well!

While these are the common signs, it doesn’t mean that they’re always 100% accurate. Be careful to avoid accusing them, rather sit down and have a talk before you jump to any conclusions.

Is your Partner Cheating?

Marriages can be destroyed when it comes to cheating; this is why you need to know the certain signs that could catch your attention. Discovering your spouse is cheating is an awful experience; don’t make it worse by wasting your time and money on a lawyer – contact Cape Mediators today and we can settle your divorce in a peaceful manner.

Here are the 7 most common signs that may reveal that your partner is cheating...

Password Protection – These days it is vital to protect your phone, laptop, email, etc. with passwords. However if he is suddenly changing all his passwords or implementing passwords where he never was before then this could be a sign that he is hiding something.

Cellphone Guarding – If he all of a sudden starts spending more time glued to his cell phone and he won’t even let you touch it then something might be up. Some signs could include: sleeping with his phone right next to the bed, taking it into the shower with him, leaving the room to answer the phone when it rings.

Physical Appearance – Don’t jump to conclusions because this one could be nothing, but it should still be considered. Did he suddenly go from wearing jeans and a t-shirt to fancy suits and shiny shoes? Or maybe he’s wearing new cologne that you’ve never smelled before? This could be a sign of a mistress.

No More Intimacy – He may not reject your upfront, but when you reject him he may just agree with you instead of fighting them like he would usually do in the past.

Social Activities – Be aware when your partner is all of a sudden going out of town or attending social gatherings more often than usual. A business meeting or party is a common excuse! Also take note when he starts new hobbies without you, such as training three times a week for a marathon, but you never actually see him do it.

More Gifts – Partners who are unfaithful will try to cover up their feelings of guilt by buying you gifts. If you are surprised about how much your partner is spoiling you lately then you might want to find out what the reason behind it is.

Social Media Profiles – If your partner is cheating their social media profiles may start to look very different. There will be less photos of you two together and more solo shots or group pictures, this is a warning sign and you should be aware of how much time they’re spending on social media.

While these are the classic signs, it doesn’t mean that they’re always 100% accurate. Be careful to avoid accusing them and instead sit down and have a talk.